Although I am a firm believer in vision boards, I also know they only work if you are truly connected with your why.
Made a vision board before that didn’t turn into a reality? What if I told you your why is the reason your vision board isn’t becoming a reality?
The difference between someone whose vision board becomes a reality and someone who has a few manifestations if any at all, is that the first is so deeply connected to their why; on a soul deep level, that they can’t be thrown off their vision by whatever challenge is thrown their way.
Too often we have a surface level ‘why’. A why that is so generic and has no real emotion behind it. A why we have heard others say and therefor think it should be our why too.
Whenever I start working with a new client, I always ask about their why. And about 80-90%% of the times I get a response that’s somewhere along the lines of: “My child is/children are my why” or “Money is my why”.
This is going to ruffle a few feathers, but someone has to be blunt about it to get you to understand this: Your children as your why is a poor why and isn’t going to get you far! There, I said it.
Let’s be honest: any decent parent who cares about their children wants the best for them, maybe even better than you had growing up.
But if shit hits the wall, that is not going to drive you. That is not going to keep you motivated or you would have been successful and had all the money you desired by now.
Here’s the thing: Your why is something deeper than that. Yes, your children are the start of your why but if you want that unshakeable soul deep level connection with your why that is going to be the driving force for everything you do in your business, no matter the challenges thrown at you, you need to go deeper.
And here’s how you do that:
- Start with your surface level why.
The why you have been telling yourself all this time. The reason
behind what you do what you do.
This why is usually influenced by your outer reality and external influences.
- Now ask yourself: WHY do I want that? And be specific.
This why is usually driven by the mind. You have gone inside, but still scratching the surface.
- Now ask yourself again: WHY do I want that?
This is going to be the why that explains what you have gone through and experienced. Usually something you decided a long time ago to make sure no one has to go through because you know the pain and the hurt.
This is the why on the subconscious level. Getting to here for some people is the hardest thing because you are being forced to confront the traumas you might have hidden, the hurt you have buried and the limiting beliefs you have stored about yourself, your worth and what you are capable of. Getting to this level is a blessing though, because it sheds a the light on the things that have been holding you back in your business and preventing you from reaching your goals.
- It’s time to ask again: WHY do I want that?
Congratulations, you have reached the spirit level. The soul deep level.
Now that you have reached this level, when a challenge is thrown at you, you instantly connect to this level and know why you are persevering.
And for the pros under us who want to take it one step further there is one more level you can go: the Universal level.
If you want to understand on such a deep level why your soul chose this journey, this time, this life you can ask the WHY question one more time. This is the bridge between your life purpose and your soul purpose.
Write your answers down and really allow yourself to go deep. No one else is seeing what you wrote down, so there is no need to hold back. Give yourself permission to really go there.
So, there you have it. If you want to manifest everything on your vision board, effortlessly and with unshakeable determination, connect to your soul deep level why and nothing will keep you from manifesting your desires.
What is your soul deep level why?